Emotional Vampires: Dealing With People Who Drain You Dry by Bernstein Albert J

Author:Bernstein, Albert J. [Bernstein, Albert J.]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Tags: Behavioral Psychology
Publisher: McGraw-Hill
Published: 2000-08-15T20:00:00+00:00

7. LET CONTINGENCIES DO THE WORK

At work or in relationships, Passive-Aggressive vampires want to be rated excellent on all performance reviews. You can use their powerful need for approval to teach them how to be less Passive-Aggressive. Here are some suggestions.

Always Pay Attention. If you ignore a creature whose major goal in life is to get your attention, there will be consequences. Remember, you aren’t the only one using contingencies. Headaches are powerful tools for modifying your behavior. You’ll get them if you forget to notice all the wonderful, helpful things the Passive-Aggressive vampire is doing.

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